FAMILY and friends will today attend a service held for a former Mayoress of Nottingham and devoted Salvation Army soldier who died last month.
Lilian Gapper, from Wollaton, who was wife to 1994's Mayor of Nottingham Vernon Gapper, died at the Queen's Medical Centre on Friday, May 23 aged 88.
During her time as Mayoress, Mrs Gapper attended more than 1,000 engagements with her husband, meeting illustrious public figures including Tony Blair, Ken Clarke and the Duchess of Kent.
Her son, Kevin Gapper, 54, from Derby, recalled it was a duty she always treated with the utmost dignity.
He said: "She relished every minute of the year in office and the memories remained with her. "We think she had great courage when she wore her Salvation Army uniform on a few of her duties.
"Their period in office was a very proud time for our family." Mrs Gapper was born Lilian Williams in Ystrad Mynach, South Wales on February 10, 1926 to father Stanley and mother Emma.
She was the youngest of five children but, sadly, all her three brothers died by the time she was seven.
She remained very close to her sister Eva throughout their life. Eva passed away in 1999, aged 78.
The Williams family moved to Senghenydd, also in South Wales, in the 1940s where she met future husband Vernon.
They were married in 1946 and the first two children, Sylvia and Vernon (Junior) were born in the town. They later moved to Pontllanfraith in 1948 where Myra, Kevin and Malcolm were born.
When Mr Gapper became a full-time union official in 1974, the family moved to Nottingham where they became Salvation Army soldiers at the William Booth Memorial corps.
Son Kevin said his mother never lost sight of her roots when they moved to Nottingham.
He added: "She loved to attend the morning meeting at the Army but was happy to stay at home in the evening to watch her favourite television programme, Songs of Praise.
"She especially loved it if it came from Wales, and woe betide you if you rang her while it was on.
"Your call would be a short one!"
Mrs Gapper adored her time as Mayoress and accompanied her husband on almost all of his engagements.
As well as chatting with notable local public figures she also took part in engagements overseas including one to Belarus where she met victims of the Chernobyl disaster.
Among her hobbies and interests, Mrs Gapper enjoyed cookery, fashion and shopping.
She was taken to hospital earlier this year following a heart attack. Her condition rapidly deteriorated over the coming months and she died in hospital surrounded by family.
Her son, Vernon, 65, from Stapleford said she was a kind woman of principle and poise.
He added: "She was very proud of her Salvation Army principles and the importance of bringing up her children to love God
"She lived with a high morality and love of her Welsh heritage."
A service is being held today at Beeston cemetery followed by thanksgiving ceremony at the William Booth Memorial Hall.