WHILE other families celebrated the arrival of their beloved newborns around them, Richard and Michelle Daniels cradled their lifeless daughter, Emily.
The Chilwell couple could have had no idea they would not be returning home with their second child after a completely normal pregnancy culminated in labour last December.
But while they say they received good care at the hospital, they will never forget having to cry their first tears and learning to grieve in a room created for a new, happy family – with the pained shouts and triumphant cheers of childbirth echoing around them.
That is why, just days after finding out Emily had died in the womb, this special couple resolved to do something about the situation; they set up a charity – Forever Stars – and started a fundraising campaign designed to raise £50,000 or more to solve the problem.
"We just felt it wasn't right that someone in that situation was just put back in that room," Richard said.
The 38-year-old dad-of-one added: "It was set up for a newborn baby. There was a cot and advice in there – that's quite distressing for parents to be sitting in that sort of environment.
"We decided we wanted to try to raise money which facilitated a sound-proof soft room where you can both sit together, a double bed and softer lighting and refreshments. It's actually a government recommendation and both Leicester and Derby have bereavement suites. Nottingham have little. We are the poor relation."
Michelle added: "We didn't have any expectation of there being a problem, as some families do.
"We were on the brink of the birth of our daughter and to find out that far along that we weren't going to get that, you just feel robbed and it's so harsh being in the clinical labour suite environment and hearing people all around you having healthy babies.
"You need shelter from that and it just makes the situation worse. That's your only time with the baby but because of the environment, I felt I needed to get out of hospital, even though spending more time there would physically have been better."
Despite going through so much herself, Michelle's priority is to make a difference for others.
She said: "We want to provide families with shelter and protection from the outside world where they can grieve and come to terms with what happened.
"It would have a massive impact – lots of families will want to try again and if you can provide a better setting, it helps to be able to try again and have a different experience.
"That time does stay with you forever, so if we can help to make it softer and more gentle, all for the better."
Just 23 weeks after they set up the charity, generous fundraisers have contributed to the couple's magnificent efforts to raise around £30,000. Michelle and Richard are full of praise for the whole city of Nottingham which has got behind their campaign.
Richard said: "We just went on Facebook to start with and thought if we could get 100 likes, we could create some momentum, but it just snowballed.
"We got more than 5,000 followers and we get about 1,500 hits a week on the website. It's gone really well. We've tried to make this a Nottingham-centric charity so people can see the results of what they are doing locally but it's been incredible.
"Today, we've just been announced as Beeston Sainsbury's charity partner.
"There's a bit of a club out there – so many people go through this. People will come up to us 30 or 40 years after the stillbirth and they still have tears in their eyes and they can remember exactly the same experience that we had. You don't appreciate until you've had it happen what an impact those hours and days have on you.
"But we've hit the £30,000 mark and we hope that we are going to smash the total."
He added: "We want to have achieved our target by Emily's birthday, which would have been December 19. That would mean we have achieved the legacy we wanted for her."
The first phase of the couple's project will mean a bereavement suite being created at the QMC which will be soundproof and contain a chilled cot – allowing parents to spend more time with their stillborn baby. They also hope to play a part in redesigning the hospital's maternity suite in the next few years if more money can be raised.
Alison Atkinson, head of midwifery with Nottingham University Hospitals NHS Trust, says: "We are extremely grateful to Michelle and Richard for their outstanding efforts, which will help to improve the facilities, environment and experience of future patients and families in our care.
"By listening to and learning about the experiences of families such as Michelle and Richard, we can improve the maternity unit and improve the way in which we deliver care so it is the best it can be.
"We are meeting regularly with Michelle to discuss the immediate improvements we can make to the environment so that we can be ever more respectful of the feelings of women and families who have had a bereavement."
The Post is supporting the Forever Stars campaign and will be bringing you a series of articles on the couple's latest efforts. To donate, go to foreverstars.org.